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Friday, June 3, 2011

Let the busy begin

Wow...today was so busy!!
Tomorrow will be busy as well as Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday...oh fine, I admit it; the next two weeks are gonna be crazy.

Why?
Well VBS is a'comin and there is work to be done!!!

I will try to at least post a picture each day, but probably won't have any sage words or interesting documentaries.


Then again, I work exceedingly well under pressure!!

Oh, that up there is either a squash or a zucchini.
I know not, and won't if the squirrels don't stop knocking off the blooms!!
It is real pretty though!

okay, luv ya...bye!

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Bowls of Hamster!


I just almost can't stand it!




When my kid walks in proudly showing a piece of artwork he has created.
And he takes the time to point out all the things that make it unique, when it is so obvious to me that it may as well be singing out loud as I listen.
I am sorry if that doesn't make sense.
It is crazy, mommy love talk.



Then, this same kid throws his hamster in the pot of perfection and his shirt just happens to be the most excellent compliment to it, and I just happen to have my camera within touching distance.


Sigh!!!
Big Sigh!!
I love my job, really love it.

This is a big Mommy day for me today.
I have a graduation to go to, and emotions to deal with...so I need to get to it.

It is the last day of school, and I am super happy/sad about that.

Please make note of a new little link there to your right. It is directly under the map.
That link will take you to all of the recipes I have ever written out for you...so no more hours of random searching.
You are welcome!!!
Gotta get...

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Cowboy JP

Please don't leave!

Not the spider, you!
My girl is home sick today and we were left alone to deal with this guy on our own.
Hello photo of the day!
We ended up blowing on him to get him out the front door squealing the whole time.

Once we got him out, my little cupcake pointed out that I had done the most screeching! Of course I attributed that to being defenseless while having both hands on the camera and my old body on the floor!!!
I believe she was feeling vindicated about the watermelon scenario!

Okay, now that that is taken care of let's move on to what I wanted to share today.

Remember meeting Eve?


I am not sure if you recall, but in that post I told you that Eve was supposed to be getting some training done.
I want to tell you a bit more about that today.
It was a fun step right out of my laundry, mommy, spaghetti and meatball daily world!!

Now I don't know all of you who read this blog, but I have a feeling none of you are cowboy/horse trainer employees and may enjoy this field trip as much as I did!!

Some come on over here and let me introduce you to JP!


Don't let the ball cap and cell phone imprint fool you, this fellow is the real deal.

I mean, no he wasn't wearing boots or a ten gallon hat, but this guy knows his horses!
It was quite a treat to be able to saunter around the Ranch listening to his slow polite drawl as he answered my barrage of questions.

I admit I was a bit skittish this trip, seeing as how the last time I was visiting was when....

...I had my flying lessons!

JP was not there for that incident but had heard about it.
He just gave me a sideways grin and a bit of a laugh when we spotted the gray mare and I suggested that I might have flashbacks and may pass out or something.

JP deals with crazy middle aged ladies almost as well as he deals with horses!!

He said that he has been riding since he was three.
THREE!!
Okay, different world people.
So that means he has been around horses just about as long as I have been married.
Ahhhh ha ha ha.
He also mentioned that he has been training since he was about eleven. cool!!
This investment of time really shows in his demeanor and ability to "read" what the horses might do.
For instance when we came down a path and saw April...my nemesis, he was quick to say

"Be ready, she is probably gonna spook soon and run right past us."

Which she did, almost as if on command.


Awhile later I was busy snapping pictures but noticed, out of the corner of my eye, his entire body language change from laid back relaxed leaning on a fence, to ready and aware.
I immediately stopped what I was doing, stood very slowly looked him right in the eye and asked him quickly what I needed to do.
Apparently the Stud horse I was taking photos of was about to corral a mare, her baby and ME!
He was pretty sure I didn't want to be invited to that party, and got me out of there quickly.

JP then politely excused himself to get back to work while I took the time to wander about a bit more, trying to stay out of trouble!

I did have a purpose for being out there that day by the way.
It isn't all field trips and cupcakes for me ya know!!
JP recently married into this sweet family and has been using his talents to create a Web page for their family ranch. Since we are all interlinked on Facebook, he came across some of my horse images and knew they would marry well with his vision for the site.

So...I was on assignment this day gathering specific images which will be used there when JP can dust off his tennis shoes and get back to it!
You can check out what he has going so far here, at the Tranquility Ranch Website.
I hope my images are easily identifiable to you...I feel like I am developing a sense of what my "style" is working its way to being.

When I finished my "assignment" for the day I hiked back over to see what JP was up to. When he left me he said he was getting back to work...me being me, I didn't know what that looked like.
Here is what I found out!

See him sitting there on the fence...I think he is texting! Kidding, just kidding.

Now, glance over to the right a bit; he has Eve securely tied to a large tree limb.

I was like a 6 year old asking questions, why ya doing that, now why ya doing that, now why ya doing that?
He just answered and answered and then answered again in an email...cause you know my rememberer doesn't work so great.

Here is what he had to say.
"I'm desensitizing her so that she will be more relaxed and comfortable around people so that she can be trained easily. By doing this I will get her trust and once I have that, I will be able to get her to do just about anything for me
including saddle up!"

He has her tied to the tree limb because it has some give to it. Otherwise it would be him attached to the end of that rope and he could have fought her for hours if not days!!
He lets the tree do that work! Cool trick JP!

Why ya doing that JP???


"Because she is not halter broke! Her first instinct when I catch her is to fight to get free. By allowing her to fight the tree she will wear herself out and hopefully realize she is fine and that she is only fighting against herself.
She will begin to respect the rope, realizing it is better to go with it than pull against it.
"

"Once this is achieved your horse is just about halter broke!!"

He also let me know not to look the horse in the eye, and pat them reassuringly but as though it is just something else you are doing. They tend to be less nervous that way.

Hmmm, not really the way to go about the business of training kids, though this might tend to work with a teenage boy!!! I will try it out, hey whatever works!

Hey JP...where ya taking her??

"Well, because her training is just starting she doesn't have a sense of respect for people so she'd rather run.
Not because she wants to get away but because she is unsure of what I want from her. So I will herd her into a pen where we are in close range, where she will have to acknowledge me for catching her.
"

As JP gently led Eve to the gate to separate her from the other horses, she got nervous and began shaking her head. She pulled up hard and fast and JP lost hold of her.

It was then a battle of wits, will and skill to see who would win out!
She lunged right, he countered.


She lunged left, he was on it!



But she was fast and crafty and managed to dart past him.


She seemed to immediately get saucy too, seeing that she once again had the upper hand.


JP took it all in stride, never got frustrated or angry.
Just set about to catching her all over again.

Since the horses were going to be running anyway, I asked where I should be in the field to snap off some shots.

He settled me in along the fence line so that I could take some shots of the horses running past, saying it would be the safest place in that field for me.

Huh? Really JP??? Seeing as how these guys rushed me and would have trampled me to pieces given the chance.
It is a conspiracy I tell you...see the dark horse way to the back...uh huh, that is April's baby!!!
They have been talking!

JP ran these horses about, specifically for me for awhile.

He wanted to catch Eve, but he also knew I wanted to practice my camera skills.

He's nice like that.

She always managed to stay in the middle or on the edge far away from him.


Dodging and staying just out of his reach.


This cowboy knows when he is beat.
No offense there JP, but you just couldn't catch her!!!

You gotta respect a man knows his limits but keeps his tricks handy too!
Yeah, JP headed over to get a bucket of feed in order to tempt her to go with him.

Hey, I work well for food...it is a great motivator!!

He loaded it up in a bucket and jumped on the gator to drive it back over to the field.
That horse in the center wanted some of that there motivation for herself...



...and set off to get some.

Ahhhh ha ha ha!! He had to shoo her off, then got back down to business.

JP says he finally caught Eve, then took her on to the next part of her training.

Lunging was first on the schedule. Here is what I found out about that.

You earn a horse’s respect by moving his feet forwards, backwards, left and right. The purpose of lunging should be to continuously ask your horse to change directions and focus on you. The more you can get his feet to move and change directions, the more respectful the horse will get.


And then next was patting down.
JP said "Patting down will desensitizes her. For example if I were to saddle her up and she got hit with the stirrup, she wouldn't spook!"


I like how he explains things nice and simple!!

JP is so obviously talented with the horses, I couldn't help but ask him of his future plans with them.
I just adore his answer!
"Yes I do plan to continue working with horses after college. Most people have movies, golf etc which they need to relax. Horses are the one thing that I feel most comfortable around . . . other then my wife of course!

That kind of comment deserves a drop dead gorgeous picture to go along with it.

By photographer extraordinaire Allison Brockman of Freckled Egg Photography.
If I am not mistaken that horse hiding behind the featured horse is Eve! How about that!!?

Hey JP!!! Thanks for my field trip day, and answering my texts at weird times of the day, and running the horses about, and answering 800 questions, and answering 800 emails, and putting up with me all around!!!

When can we do it all again???

Huh JP??

Huh?
HUH???

JP??

....I know your number JP!!

Well, that is all for today.
My presence is requested for a rousing game of Horseopoly in the next room over with my baby girl!!

See ya tomorrow!!

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Tomatoes and watermelon

My neighbor and my husband apparently struck deal.
Tomatoes for cucumbers.
We are growing the tomatoes, and they the cucumbers.

Yesterday I laid six little cherry tomatoes on our shared fence, got out my camera and then hallloooo'd to the neighbor!!


He came over and gave a bit of a chuckle while saying "I have cucumbers for you!"
You see, this is the third batch of tomatoes headed to their place.

I watched his hands come into view and snapped quickly!


I said "woooohoooo I am so excited, yummy yummy cucumbers!"

I was generous...he had to use both hands!

He chuckled a little more then said again..."Yup, I've got cucumbers for ya! I will give 'em to ya as soon as they are done growing!"
He laughed out loud then as he turned back to his home to take his treasure in!
Stinker!!!
It was a fun neighborly exchange!


My foodie friend picked this watermelon out for me today when we were shopping together.

I was hungry and tired and my back hurt and I was hungry and tired, so I didn't even think to ask her what she was doing to pick just the right one. I just watched her dumbly as she walked around working her magic.

I know I will get an email from her though explaining it, now that I said so here!! If it makes sense I will share it with you.
I mean...sometimes people have just done something so long they don't even realize what they are doing, and even if they do they can't describe it.

I put this very watermelon out in our raised watermelon planter today, then hollered to my daughter that we had a watermelon finally!
She came running and peered out the back window exclaiming in wonder.

I truly thought she would turn and give me that knowing look and remind me that she had already seen it on the counter top, but that I was funny to try to pass it off on her.

But no, she proceeded to go outside and check it out, thumping and tapping it to see if it was ready.
She was amazed that it was already detached from the vine and reached to pick it up, to haul it in.

The fact that it was pajama day at her school made it all the more precious!

Innocent complete belief in my suggestion, as I hid behind my camera chuckling!

If I were you...I wouldn't mention that I told you this story.
She hasn't gotten to the point where she thinks it is funny yet!!!
(though she did give me permission to tell it)

See ya tomorrow!!!

Monday, May 30, 2011

Monday

I am going to do a token load of laundry...towels!
That practically doesn't count!

I am honoring my picture taking everyday promise, though come to think about it I didn't post one on Saturday. Ooops sorry, I was a bit distracted!
I did take some however. Did I say that in that post? I dunno.

I took a few pictures today with my "kit" lens. I haven't used it in quite some time, so it was good practice.
I had to take it off of manual focus to be able to get a spider web to appear where I wanted it. The composition of those photos however, was not good... so they got deleted!
I moved on to other non thrilling things to further bog down your day here while reading my boring entry for this day.

My dear husband did the watering so I was able to just scan around for droplets!
I took about 12 of this one waiting for it to fall, then missed it when it finally did.

At least there is some drama here with it blowing in the wind!

Enjoy and remember, that what this holiday is all about!

Sunday, May 29, 2011

Sunday "dinner on the ground" days always seem to bring..


...lots of mysterious yellow dishes

and I don't mean the pans!

Dessert enough to fill multiple tables and left overs enough to feed a small army.



Children dressed in lovely clothes who eat the tops off of cupcakes and...


...a chance for grand-babies to follow in the footsteps of their grandparents!

This little fellows grandpa always takes the job of icing up the cups for the masses.
He got right in there and got busy and worked hard in the heat for a long time, all of his own doing.

My church family is amazing, and I love them so!!!

Saturday, May 28, 2011

What can we do?

This has been my question of late.
I have found that when I have day after day of simple pictures posted on my blog, that my heart is working on a particular something that must be examined. Then I can finally sit to study and explore and can open up to share with you.
This is not an easy thing for me to do, but I know someone out there must have some of these same feelings at some time and feel like good can come from laying out my imperfections and hopes.
So here we go....

It is our practice in this home to have family bedtime prayers.
Each of us takes a turn talking to God, thanking him for our blessings and making our requests known.

I have found myself fighting tears and pleading with God so much lately on behalf of others.

I bet you have a list similar to mine...

a man who's young daughter is fighting Leukemia
a family who is yearning for adoption of children in a system designed against them
a woman who has lost her husband and is herself in the hospital
a woman who has lost a child and is worried for the one she now carries
cities devastated by storms in need of help and healing
people in need of jobs, who have been in need for sometime
and
and
and....
so very much to ask God to work in.
Then prayer time is over and I get back to my suburban life and feel like I am doing nothing all over again.
I was needing some encouragement on this matter and thought you might as well.

We have to serve and love where we can.
I cannot leave my family and go to Joplin or Japan to touch lives there.
I have to choose to serve here in ways that are possible for me as a Mom of 3 children who need me here. (You have to serve and love where you are.)

I know there are opportunities here for me that I am neglecting.
Things that I can be doing which are so far into my zone of discomfort that fear and doubt that keep me from doing them.

I don't want to be that person....
I don't want to desire to love and serve for the Lord then pass up chances when they are presented because of my personal weaknesses and fears.
I have got some growing up to do and fast, because there is too much need in this world.



I must,
you must...answer the call, do what we can;
then we have to be okay with that being all we can do, and sit down to pray some more.

Do where we can, pray where we can't.

Do where we can...hmmmmm?
I can use words to encourage many of these people.
I can visit the hospital.
I can put together a pile of clothes for those in need.

That is it!
What a measly ridiculously small list of cans.
It almost makes me sick to my stomach.
But wait, we still have to factor in prayer.
Suddenly there is hope again for the amount of change you and I can effect.

James 5:16b-18
The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much. 17 Elijah was a man with a nature like ours, and he prayed earnestly that it would not rain, and it did not rain on the earth for three years and six months. 18 Then he prayed again, and the sky poured rain and the earth produced its fruit.

Proverbs 15:8b
the prayer of the upright is His delight.

Psalms 34:15
15 The eyes of the LORD are toward the righteous And His ears are open to their cry.

Phil. 4:6-7
6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Psalms 145:17-19
17 The LORD is righteous in all His ways And kind in all His deeds. 18 The LORD is near to all who call upon Him, To all who call upon Him in truth. 19 He will fulfill the desire of those who fear Him; He will also hear their cry and will save them.

1John 5:14-15
14 This is the confidence which we have before Him, that, if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. 15 And if we know that He hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests which we have asked from Him.


My prayers choked out with tears are requests for healing and respite from pain. Prayers for change in what seems like a path of frustration for people who do love God. Prayers to understand HIS will in situations that seem fraught with only heartache.

I find myself in a constant struggle of seeing what I think is best in a situation and knowing with faith that God's will is perfect and right.
Pleading for change while knowing that the outcome, whatever it may be, is for his purpose.

I want to keep these thoughts from Proverbs close to my heart
16:4 The Lord works out everything for his own ends

16:9 In his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps.

19:21 Many are the plans of a man's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails

21:30 There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against the Lord.


So?
What can we do?

Do where we can and pray where we can't.

Well I suppose for the most of us, that means a little more of the same.
And, for some of us that means more of reaching outside of our comfort zone into where Christ would have us be.